5 Tips to Transform from Single Mom to Hot Mama

It is easy to fall into the pitfalls of being a single mom, especially when you have more than one child. However, transforming from single mom to hot mama is possible for any mom who wants to make the jump. The key to the transformation from single mom to hot mama is confidence.  Most single moms fall into the slump of not taking care of themselves, always taking care of their kids, so they don’t feel attractive, sexy, or desireable. You don’t have to fall into this slump, you just need to regain that confidence again. Here are 5 tips to transforming from single mom to hot mama.

5 Tips to Transform from Single Mom to Hot Mama

Work Out

One of the best ways to re-gain your confidence is to feel good about yourself. Working out will be a way to shave off pounds while also allowing you to reduce your stress levels and feel the endorphins that make you feel good. You can work-out at your home, with a program like P90x, or just going outside for a walk or run, or join a gym. I recommend joining a gym, as it will allow you to take part in group fitness classes where you can meet new people and working out with other people is always more fun than working out alone. Zumba seems to becoming more and more popular among moms and it is a easy and fun way to lose weight. Yoga is also a means of working out that not only helps build your core strength, burning calories, but also helps with mind control and can reduce stress.


Purchase New Clothes.

Whether your having to lay down on the bed and suck in your stomach as much as you can to button your jeans or your jeans are so big and baggy you need to use a belt to hold them up—we’ve all experienced it one way or another. In order to gain confidence and feel good, and look good, you need to wear clothes that FIT! Clothes begin to have sentimental value, which is why it gets hard to throw them away, or they cost so much that you still want to keep and wear the item even though it is out of style now. But having new clothes that align with your age and your personality is key to the Hot Mama transformation.


Update Your Hair

Having a new do is a major way to embrace change. If you have ever seen a make-over show, like What Not to Wear on TLC, a new haircut is a huge part of the transformation. Having a new do will allow you to see yourself in a new light and have to adjust and embrace the new you. Also, for those moms who are starting to see a few grays here or there, this is a time to try coloring your hair! While “granny hair” is trendy now, if you want to get rid of the grays be daring a try a color or, if not so daring, pick a shade that is closest to your hair natural color.


Make Time For Yourself.

Most moms seem to do it—They put everyone else first and themselves last. However, if you are taking care of yourself, you can better help others! Make time to get your nails done or get a massage. You time is important, not only for yourself but also to become a Hot Mama.


Have a Hobby.

Having a hobby will give you more confidence; If you are good at something, you feel good about it and therefore yourself. If you truly want to embrace a new life as a Hot Mama, think about trying a brand new hobby, like rock climbing or Zumba. Yet, if you already have a hobby that you enjoy, embrace your current hobby!